This is a typical evening with Jonas’ family from my perspective…Jonas mom: blah blah blah blah blah blah … blah blah …
hui sic… blah blah… blah blah…
Me thinking: (Ok, she is talking about
going to eat somewhere)
Jonas: blah blah blah blah … blah blah … blah blah…
Me thinking: (No idea what he is talking about.)
Jonas mom: blah bah … blah blah…
yum cha… blah blah
Me thinking: (
Drink tea? What? Oh, wait, I think she is talking about
dim sum. Double meaning. Cantonese is sooooooo confusing.)
Jonas: (Trying help translate) My mom is saying that she went with her friend to eat…
Me: Dim sum, right?
Jonas: How do you know!?
Me: You told me that yum cha also means dim sum … since your mom was talking about going somewhere to eat, I figured it was dim sum.
Jonas: Ohhhh… very good!
Jonas mom: blah blah … blah blah … blah blah blah
Jonas: blah blah blah …
bean doh … blah blah… blah blah…
Me thinking: (I think that means
where.)
Jonas dad: blah blah … blah blah … blah blah
(This is where I usually start to tune out. I start thinking about if I am ever going to be able to completely understand Cantonese. I wonder if I will be able to pick up the language more easily because I hear it every day. I feel somewhat thankful for the language barrier, because it kind of takes the pressure off of me to keep up with the conversation, so I can be introverted around his parents, without them thinking that I am not friendly… I think that I should try to listen, because it will help me to learn the language. Then I can spy on people… heeheehee… And I could probably get a job more easily if I knew Cantonese… Hmmmm, I wonder if there are any new job openings in Alameda county… Oh, Jonas mom is speaking English! That’s my cue.)
Jonas mom: Mey-la-nie …tomorrow… you want eat at Sweet… Um…
Me: Sweet Tomato?
Jonas mom: Yeah, Sweet Tomato.
Me: Yes. I like Sweet Tomato.
Jonas mom: You like it?
Jonas: blah blah blah …. Mel-la-nie … blah blah
choi … blah blah
Me thinking: (I guess he is telling her that I like
vegetables?)
Jonas dad: You should eat more meat. It is not healthy to just eat vegetables … not a balanced diet.
Me: Ok… (Thinking: My daily reminder from Jonas’ parents that I need to eat more meat… just smile and nod.)
Jonas dad: blah blah blah … blah blah … blah blah
Jonas mom: blah blah blah … blah blah … blah blah
Dammit, I need to learn more Cantonese...